Stop Dating the Wrong Letters: How ABT Decodes Love & Laughs
We’ve all said it: “I must have a type.”
Tall. Funny. Plays guitar. Or maybe he's just... emotionally unavailable but with great hair. (Don’t worry, I’ve been there, too.)
But what if your “type” isn’t about looks, hobbies, or the size of their shoe collection? What if your type is hiding in plain sight—in their last name letter?
Welcome to the AlphaBet Theory (ABT), where love, laughter, and the alphabet come together.
My “Letter” Problem
I used to think I had a “type.” Turns out, I had a letter.
I kept falling for the “R” boys—Barry R., Larry R. (Yes, brothers. Don’t judge me—I was young, and the heart makes questionable decisions). Let’s say they weren’t exactly cosmic soulmates. Looking back, I should have seen the pattern stamped right there in their names.
That was when I started connecting the dots—or rather, the letters. And the AlphaBet Theory was born.
The 5 Subgroups of ABT
Here’s the main idea: your last name sorts you into one of five compatibility groups.
A–E: The Grounded Builders – idealistic, loyal, and practical.
F–L: The Steady Hearts - warm, nurturing, and reliable.
M–N: The Charming Whirlwinds – charismatic, spontaneous, and fun.
O–T: The Deep Divers – introspective, intense, and stubborn.
U–Z: The Wild Cards — bold, go with the flow, and unpredictable.
Some groups spark instant chemistry (hello, fireworks)—others... not so much (more like a fire hazard).
But the best part? Once you understand your group, you can spot red flags, green lights, and “proceed with caution” signs before you get ghosted, breadcrumbed, or stuck in another relationship that feels like a Netflix drama without the binge-watch payoff.
Why You’ll Love This Journey
In my book, Stop Dating the Wrong Letters, you’ll:
Understand what your subgroup uncovers about your love style.
Learn my WELL Method (a smart way to vet dates without losing your mind).
Spot the red and green flags in dating before you waste your best mascara.
Get practical tools for building genuine relationships—with humor, wisdom, and a touch of sass.
Your Turn: What’s Your “Letter”?
Now it’s your turn—who’s your letter? Have you kept falling for the same initials over and over? (It’s okay. We’ve all had our “Toxic T” or “No-Go N.”)
👉 Share your story in the comments below or join the 2-OYS mailing list to share privately. When you do, you’ll receive a free Compatibility Chart—a quick, handy cheat sheet for identifying your best (and worst) matches at a glance.
Because love is hard enough, decoding it shouldn’t be.