The AlphaBet Collection

Understand the pattern. Then do something about it.

Stop Dating the Wrong Letters helps you understand why certain relationship patterns keep showing up. The Alphabet Theory Relationship Workbook helps you take that understanding off the page and put it to work in your own life.

Start with the book. Go deeper with the workbook. Or meet yourself wherever you are.

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THE ALPHABET THEORY RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK

Understand Your Love Patterns and Choose Love That Fits

You spotted the pattern. Good.

Now what are you going to do about it?

The Alphabet Theory Relationship Workbook takes you beyond recognizing your relationship patterns and helps you examine them for yourself. Through guided exercises, reflection, the WELL Method, and the Alphabet Theory framework, you'll explore chemistry, compatibility, boundaries, emotional availability, and the choices that shape your relationships.

This isn't about finding a magical letter.

It's about understanding you well enough to choose differently.

WHERE ALPHABET THEORY BEGAN

STOP DATING THE WRONG LETTERS

A Playful-but-True Guide to Finding Love That Fits

Ever wonder why you keep being drawn to the same kind of person—even when you already know how that story ends?

Stop Dating the Wrong Letters introduces the Alphabet Theory, a playful-but-insightful way to look at attraction, compatibility, and the relationship patterns we repeat. With humor, psychology, and a little tough love, Louise Fields helps you recognize what fits, what doesn't, and why chemistry isn't always the same thing as compatibility.

NOT SURE WHERE TO START?

New to Alphabet Theory?

Start with Stop Dating the Wrong Letters. You'll learn the theory, meet the five letter groups, and begin recognizing your patterns.

Already know your patterns—or ready to dig into your own?

Pick up The Alphabet Theory Relationship Workbook and put that insight to work.

Want both?

Even better. Read. Reflect. Write things down. Circle things. Argue with Louise in the margins if necessary. Just don't pretend you didn't see the pattern once you found it.

LOOKING FOR THE ORIGINAL SDWL COMPANION WORKBOOK?

If you're reading Stop Dating the Wrong Letters and would like the original workbook created to accompany it, the paperback is currently available on Amazon.

Looking for a more comprehensive, standalone workbook? The new Alphabet Theory Relationship Workbook is designed to help you explore your relationship patterns whether or not you've read Stop Dating the Wrong Letters.