What's Your AlphaBet Dating Group?

Seven questions. Five dating styles. And maybe a little insight into what makes your heart tick.

Five Dating Styles. Which One Sounds Like You?

The AlphaBet Theory recognizes five relationship styles, each with its own approach to love and connection.

Are you someone who appreciates a solid foundation? A steady heart? A little romantic excitement? Perhaps you enjoy meaningful connections or prefer a relationship with room for adventure.

There's a little something to love about every style.

Answer seven questions, follow your instincts, and discover which one sounds most like you.

And remember, these groups are guides, not rules.

Before you begin: Don't overthink it. Pick the answer that sounds most like you—not the one you'd put on your dating résumé. There are no right or wrong answers, and Louise isn't keeping score. Well, technically, the quiz is. But you know what I mean.

Question 1 — The Disappearing TextsYou've had three great dates. The chemistry is there, and the conversation flows. Then suddenly, the texts slow down. What's your move?
Question 2 — The Second-Date DecisionThe first date went well. What would make you say yes to a second date?
Question 3 — The Surprise WeekendSomeone you've been dating suggests a surprise weekend getaway. What's your first reaction?
Question 4 — The Flirting DepartmentYou're at a gathering, and someone interesting catches your eye. What's most likely to happen next?
Question 5 — The Little ThingsYou've been dating someone for a while. Which unexpected gesture would make you smile the most?
Question 6 — When Real Life Shows UpYou've made plans with someone you're dating, but they cancel at the last minute. What matters most to you?
Question 7 — The Relationship That FitsPicture a relationship that truly fits you. Which description feels closest?

Still Curious? There's More to Discover!

Your dating style is just one piece of the puzzle. What about your deal-breakers, your relationship superpower, or those first-date instincts?

Three more quizzes, three more chances to learn something about yourself—and maybe have a little fun along the way.

Pick one that catches your eye!